I believe...

Funny thing, I tend to take offense when someone tells me that I'm stupid, that I'm just "following the crowd" and essentially that I can't think for myself when it comes to making important decisions.

So let me give you all some insight into who I am (if anyone cares).

If you don't care or don't want to read any further, then please skip this post and go play Scrabble on Facebook. I'll let you know when I post something that is more interesting.

What I do and do not believe in - an abridged list in no particular order:

I believe in a woman's right to choose. I believe it is a right to privacy issue and that the government needs to step away and leave said decision between a woman and her doctor.

I believe that abstinence-only "sex education" will never work, except as a talking point in elections.

I believe in the death penalty.

I believe our troops need to come home. Now.

I believe that both parties in Washington are to blame for the economic crisis that we are currently facing. I also believe that partisan finger pointing solves nothing and both sides need to work together to fix this quagmire.

I don't believe marriage should only be between a man and a woman. And I believe that the Constitution should NOT be amended to "protect" marriage because, quite frankly, marriage is not in danger.

I don't believe Lee Harvey Oswald acted alone.

I believe confession is unnecessary and that my sins are between God and me, no middle man needed in order to relay them to the man upstairs.

I believe that women should be allowed in the priesthood, that priests should be allowed to marry and that the Catholic Church is stuck in the past more often than not.

I believe that if my mother-in-law reads those 2 statements above she would make me say 5 Hail Mary's and two Our Fathers.

I believe green M&Ms taste better than the others and that the brown M&Ms taste bad.

I believe that global warming is man-made.

I believe welfare should be a temporary fix, not a permanent way to live.

I believe sexual harassment and discrimination based on gender is alive and well and very much ignored in the workplace.

I believe in ghosts.

I believe in evolution.

I believe that men and women, regardless of their sexual orientation, should be allowed to serve in our military.

I believe everyone should have access to affordable health care.

I believe in stem-cell research.

I believe the government needs to spend more money finding a cure for Autism, breast cancer, AIDS, diabetes and other serious diseases.

I believe that LOST is very close to jumping the shark.

I believe in freedom of speech.

I don't believe that the 2nd amendment gives you the right to own an assault rifle.

I believe the Chinese "girls" gymnastics team lied about their ages.

I believe that you don't have to agree 100% with a given candidate in order to vote for him/her.

I believe that people who text while driving should be pulled over and given a ticket. I also believe there should be a 1-800 number we can call to report stupid drivers.

I believe naps are essential. Even when you're 35 years old. If you're tired, take a nap.

I believe chocolate should be a food group. And part of the "food pyramid."

I believe everyone should understand the difference between there/their/they're before they are allowed to graduate from high school.

...and I could keep going and going, but I will stop now. It makes little difference to me if you've read this far or not. I just needed to vent more than anything - a lot has been annoying me today, starting with essentially being told that I am incapable of thinking for myself.

I guess my point is this: We don't have to agree on everything (hell, we don't have to agree on anything), but we do have to be respectful of each other's viewpoints and opinions. The beauty of blogging is meeting new people (our blogger 'friends') and being able to share in their joys, sorrows, humor and opinions while maintaining the ability to speak our minds without being ridiculed.

Feel free to disagree with me.


  1. good for you! They are, in fact YOUR beliefs so stand up for them! And you are not stupid or a crowd follower. I agree fully with many...particularly the green M&M one. Why is that? I also fancy the blue ones - I save those for next to last to eat, of course saving the green for last! hehehe ;)

    It sucks a person has to be acting like this. I do think it is totally ok for people to question things...especially when it comes to political issues. I am up for debates as I am always courious why people view things differently then me and want to learn...even if it means in the end I still don't agree. I also think that at times there are two sides to all facts. However, when people don't respect others opinions and are just rude, I have no tolerance for that. (this is my biological father)

    In those cases I have learned to not say anything. That type of person does not want to listen but just wants to be heard. They will take everything you say and turn it to make "their point". They will never admit they are wrong, because they will twist things around until they are right in some way shape or form. You can't argue with people like that because it is just a waste of time and it could cause an ulcer ;)

    Have a relaxing night with your family!!

  2. Oh, you just like green M&M's 'cause everyone else does, you followers. I, on the other hand, am a rebel, and I LOVE the brown ones! :)

    I kid...

    Not sure if you read my rant a few weeks ago about how I hated politics, and your last paragraph pretty much explained better than I could what I feel, and perhaps what I meant to say. I hate politics because of what it brings out in people...we go from being friendly, and excepting other's opinions and beliefs as theirs to cold, finger-pointing crabby little assholes who think our opinion is the only right one. Drives me crazy.

    I cannot wait for the election to be over, just so all the crap is over too. Just because we don't all think the same, or more because some people do think the same, doesn't mean we don't think for ourselves.

    ...I could keep going and going too...

  3. WK: oh absolutely, i am all for political discussion, until it turns personal and ugly and just disrespectful. i need to learn to just stop debating at that point, but i was never good at not having the last word. haha. it's a fault i have. thank you for your comment. i'm glad you're one of my blogger friends. :)

    dr. turtle: i too cannot wait until this election is over. i was trying to not post about politics anymore, but today just set me off again. i love the "cold, finger pointing crabby little assholes" part. i'm going to have to remember that description! you rock.

  4. I agree with the overall thesis of your blog; I saw two students just yesterday get into a bitch-fit over politics in the middle of class. What started off as a friendly, informational discussion between the whole class turned into two people practically screaming over when life begins: birth or conception. Ridiculous.

    I don't say this very often, but I feel lucky that we live in this country (hold on, MSNBC, I must be anti-patriotic because I don't say those words. Arrest the Communist!), because we have the right to say whatever the hell we want and we won't get arrested for doing so. Some people forget that we all, not just ourselves, have the freedom to say whatever we want; with that comes the idea that if we have the freedom to say what we want, we also have the freedom to be respected for what we say.

  5. This has been one of my favorite posts you have ever done :)

    I think we should ALL vent like this... I LOVE knowing this stuff about you guys.