Showing posts with label travel. Show all posts
Showing posts with label travel. Show all posts

2.13.2013

Flying the "friendly skies" with peanut allergies

You might want to grab a peanut free snack. The following is a tale of two flights with a child who has peanut allergies.

There are certain things that come to mind when you're thinking about flying: cramped seats, overstuffed overhead bins, crazy bag fees, and little bags of peanuts. Some airlines still serve them and they seem innocent enough.

Except when you have a peanut allergy. Then, those little bags of peanuts could be the cause of a life threatening allergic reaction at 32,000 feet. 

As a parent of a child with a peanut and tree nut allergy the thought of flying in a metal tube filled with potential food hazards is a bit stressful. Last month we flew Delta to Ft. Lauderdale and before our flights I made it a point to contact Delta's "disability services" to let them know about Olivia's allergies. I wanted to make sure the flight crews were aware of her allergies and hoped they would make every

From Delta's website:  Effective on flights operating June 1, 2012 and beyond, when you notify us that you have a peanut allergy, we’ll refrain from serving peanuts and peanut products onboard your flight. We'll also advise cabin service to board additional non-peanut snacks, which will allow our flight attendants to serve these snack items to everyone within this area. Gate agents will be notified in case you'd like to pre-board and cleanse the immediate seating area. We'll do everything we can, but unfortunately we still can't guarantee that the flight will be completely peanut-free.

OK great. No flight can ever be 100% peanut free, I get that. (Unless of course airlines actually created "peanut free flights" which would be amazing for people with peanut allergies, but I digress). I know there will always be people who bring some kind of peanut product on board. However, we had two very different experiences on our Delta flights. One good. One not so good. And then there's the response I received from Delta.

The Detroit to Ft. Lauderdale flight was more than I expected when it came to accommodating Olivia. I spoke to the gate agent and she assured me they had a notation in the flight document about the allergies. Then, they allowed Olivia and I to board with the first class passengers so that I could wipe down our seats and tray tables with Wet Wipes - just in case there had been some serious peanut eating on the previous flight.

The flight attendant for our section immediately approached us and let me know that he was going to make an announcement that it was a peanut free flight. And then before take off he told the three rows behind us, the two rows across from us and the one row in front of us that they were in a "peanut free zone" and asked that they refrain from eating ANY peanut products. That. Was. Awesome.

Then, the snack cart came by. And I was surprised to see that the 'peanut free flight' was actually not so peanut free. Passengers could still purchase snack boxes with tree nut products and peanut M&Ms. Interesting.

Our flight home from Ft. Lauderdale was less than stellar when it came to the peanut issue. After flagging down a flight attendant to tell her of Olivia's allergies, I was essentially waved off with a "we don't serve peanuts" response. Then she made an announcement that this was a "peanut free flight." And then she proceeded to offer bags of trail mix filled with peanuts, snack boxes with peanut products and peanut M&Ms to anyone who wanted to pay the upcharge. And, there was no "peanut free zone" around Olivia's seat.

To say I was furious would be an understatement. I understand that the other passengers on the plane don't give a damn about my child's food allergy, but the airline should. If the airline is going to claim that they will refrain from serving peanuts and peanut products on board a flight where a peanut allergy is known, then they damn well better refrain from serving ANYTHING that has peanuts in it. That's the right thing to do. That's the safe thing to do.

I emailed Delta's customer service once we arrived home and today I received a response that included an apology (sort of) for the Ft. Lauderdale flight but also included a very condescending portion where they seemed to blame me for not understanding their "peanut free" policy and then tried to school me on the fact that many things might contain peanut products and those are out of their control.

Here are a few excerpts:

1. ...it is crystal clear from your detailed note that there seems to be a misunderstanding with our current peanut policy. Allow me to clarify that we have adopted a policy for our passengers with peanut allergies whereby when we are notified in advance or at the gate or onboard the aircraft, we will refrain from serving peanuts and peanut products on the flight.  [I guess Peanut M&Ms don't really contain peanuts then, right? Yeah. Clearly I misunderstood their policy. Silly me. I thought peanut free flight actually meant peanut free.]

2. In addition, it is always helpful for a passenger to review their needs with our team member at the gate and with the crew onboard their flight. Respectfully we cannot guarantee an environment free of allergens including peanuts, peanut dust, peanut oil or peanut remnants. Please remember onboard meals may contain both peanuts and tree nuts and other items served onboard may be processed or packaged in factories that produce peanut or tree nut products. [Oh. So you were just kidding about the whole "peanut free" flight thing? I understand. Yep, there was a crystal clear misunderstanding.]

3. As I am sure you are aware, peanuts are used in cooking, cosmetics, perfumes, shoe polish, candy bars, garnishes, plastics, lubricants, and so forth. [No. I wasn't aware of this. I'm an idiot and only thought peanuts were present in PEANUTS. Thanks for schooling me Delta. I feel so much smarter now.]

4. In spite of our policy not to serve peanuts, it is disturbing to learn that some snacks made available for purchase may include some form of peanut/tree nuts. Thus, we appreciate you bringing this matter to our attention. [Oh you're so welcome. But I bet you're not going to get rid of peanut M&Ms anytime soon, are ya?]


Look, I get it. I can't shield my daughter from every possible peanut-induced hazard out there. I can't force the guy in seat 24A to not eat that PB&J he brought from home. But I should be able to expect that an airline that claims to create peanut free flights by NOT serving peanuts and peanut products to actually STICK to that claim. 

Having a peanut free flight goes beyond a small bag of peanuts. If you really want to keep your passengers safe, then don't serve trail mix or snack boxes with almonds or peanut M&Ms. It's not enough to say the words "peanut free" if you aren't going to take the actions necessary to be peanut free. 

I don't know if parents of kids without food allergies can fully comprehend what it's like to have a child with a potentially life-threatening food allergy. I'm not over-reacting to our experience on Delta, trust me. It seems like every day of our trip I was telling Olivia she couldn't eat something or she shouldn't touch something because it might have peanuts or tree nuts or sesame. And because we don't know what Olivia's "trigger item" is when it comes to her peanut/tree nut allergy that makes it all the more stressful. What if she's more allergic to almonds or hazelnuts than she is to peanuts? What if merely being next to someone with a bag of peanuts is enough to cause a reaction? Or what if she touched something on that flight that Mr. Seat32C touched right after he ate a bag of trail mix filled with peanuts. And what if she then touched her mouth and had an allergic reaction and we had to use the EpiPens on her to prevent anaphylaxis at 32,000 feet.

WHAT IF. 

That is the reality of having a child with food allergies. There's a whole lot of "what ifs" involved in every food decision. And I just wish Delta - and all other airlines - would realize this when they talk about "peanut free" flights. What if they really meant "peanut free" when they used those words?

7.22.2011

After the heatwave...five question Friday

So, it's Friday night and I just baked some blueberry struesel muffins (baking really is therapeutic, you know) and now I'm trying to amuse myself while the kids watch Nickelodeon and my husband stares at ESPN. Yep, this is the exciting life I lead. :)

For my amusement (probably more than yours), here's Five Question Friday...

1. If your husband had the BIG V and you got pregnant, what would your first reaction be? (For the dudes, what would your first reaction be if your wife told you she was pregnant after the Big V?) OK, I have to admit, this question made me (1) squirm a bit and (2) laugh OUT LOUD. But in all fairness, I will answer. If I got pregnant for ANY REASON at this point in my life I would most likely freak the heck out. And then after calming down, I'd accept it. And then I'd freak out some more.

2. Best memory about this summer so far? Our family vacation to the Walt Disney World Resort in June. It was the most amazing eight days ... from the resort (Beach Club) to the parks (so fun!) to the food (amazing) ... I didn't want to come home. The girls keep asking when we are going back to WDW. I tell them "not soon enough."

3. How often do you change your sheets? Your kids' sheets? I try to do it every week or so. Sometimes it ends up being 10 days. Or two weeks. How embarrassing. Which reminds me...I need to wash the sheets tomorrow.

4. Having just gone through TSA, would you rather have a full body scan or a pat down? Um, I think I'll vote for the full body scan (and have now probably just jinxed myself for the next time I fly to Orlando). I don't want some stranger patting me down in the airport. Save that for the creepy looking dude behind me.

5. Since it is fair time....what is your favorite fair (state or county) memory? See, I used to be a reporter in Bloomsburg, Pennsylvania. And every summer there is a huge county fair in Bloomsburg. And in the summer of 1995 I had to cover the county fair. For two weeks. I even wrote a column about it that focused on all the bizarre things you see at a county fair. I wrote stories about the crazy "carnies" and the odd things they sell. I wrote a story about the mashed potato and Jello wrestling. I had to witness a mashed potato wrestling match. In 95 degree heat. Imagine the smell. And that my dear readers is my, um, favorite fair memory.

If you want to link up to the Five Question Friday fun, check out My Little Life.

2.09.2010

I hate winter. Alternate title: Thank you Delta for getting me the heck out of town before Snowmageddon 2

I am writing this post from my hotel room in Orlando, Florida.
(It's a Holiday Inn Express, and yes, in fact I DO feel smarter today. Thanks for asking.)

This time yesterday I was FREAKING OUT that I wouldn't make it to the Disney Social Media Moms Celebration because of the snow storm the weathermen were forecasting. I had a hotel room booked at the Westin at Detroit Metro, but that was only going to insure that I was at the airport on Wednesday morning - not that I would actually get OUT of the airport.

I called Delta numerous times yesterday to see if I could change my flight. I could - for $290. That wasn't going to happen. And then, at 4:30 yesterday afternoon something told me to check the Delta Web site again and wouldn't you know it - Michigan was added to the list of states that would be affected by snow! And this meant I could do a one-time change to my flight without any charge or penalty (love you, weather vouchers!).

I said "let's do it!" and the lovely Delta rep said "I can get you on a flight at 7:55 p.m." Oh. My. Gosh. That meant I had 90 minutes to finish packing and get my butt to Detroit Metro. And find a hotel for two nights in Orlando. [I was in a total state of panic by now - crying, sweating, freaking out...the whole nine yards].

I changed my flight and told the Delta rep that she was a saint and that I loved her. (No, really. I did.). I called the first hotel that came up on Expedia and made my reservation. I called Kevin and told him to get home NOW.

We made it to DTW by 6:25 pm - just in time. I checked in. Went through security. And then, breathed a small sigh of relief as I walked to my gate.

I had made it.
I beat the snow.
Mother Nature did NOT win.
I was going to the Celebration.

Sadly there are several other moms who aren't going to be able to make it because of the weather. I am still sending positive, warm thoughts their way -- hoping that some sort of miracle happens and they can get a flight or get out of their driveways and drive down here!

I talked to Kevin this morning and Snowmageddon 2 was already happening. Olivia's school was closed. Airports were reporting delays. It was going to get ugly. I am so happy that I made it out last night.

I will be posting as much as I can this week -- I'm sure I will have some amazing tales to tell from the Social Media Moms Celebration.

Right now though...I'm going to go stare at some palm trees.


Thank you to my wonderful husband for understanding my insanity and my need to get down here for this.
Thanks to my mom for that extra spending money ... I will use it wisely.
Thanks to my girls for the picture book you made me ... it makes me cry each time I look at it.

4.16.2009

A new blog

OK, so here's the thing.

Because I don't have enough things to do already (taking care of my kids, working, cooking, laundry, re-reading Twilight for the 20th time, etc)....I decided to start another blog.

Actually, I started it last August but I haven't had the time to keep it updated (and somehow I think I'll have the time now? Oh that's right...I'll be unemployed in less than 2 months!)

So, here it is: Travels with Kids. It's a blog full of my tips and tricks for sucessful travels with your little ones. My second post (last summer) was about Soak City and what to do/not do. Right now, I'll be focusing on planning a trip to Walt Disney World with your little ones (since that's where I'm headed in 9 days!). Of course, you don't have to be traveling with kids to read the blog...I'll have tips for non-kid travel too. And, there is a list of my favorite travel-related links included!

Enjoy. And happy trails!